This Crazy Little Thing Called Love

ah_calledloveDid you know that “Love” backwards spells “Evol”? Granted, I’m fully aware that it is spelled incorrectly, but here in the Juliland Universe we have Evol Grrls with lots of love to spread! I’m only a whopping twenty-five years young but in my quarter life it seems a few things snapped together in the synapses of my female brain. Simply put I’m going to share with you my observations on this emotional war we refer to as Love.

1. You can’t love anyone until you love yourself.
2. Love means never having to say you’re sorry.
3. Love is the only socially acceptable form of insanity (and self harm)
5. You will attempt to love many before someone loves you just as much in return.
6. Fall in love with your best friend.
7. Love is the only thing left in this world that’s free. Give it out often and plenty.
8. To fall in love is overwhelming and beautiful. To fall out after such a great climb will be one of the hardest things you’ll ever face, but in the end you’ll be better.
9. You can love more than one person.
10. People all show their love differently, especially from you. Be sure to see and appreciate those differences.

Now tell me your thoughts on love….

By | 2016-10-15T07:22:59+00:00 March 25th, 2015|Categories: blog|Tags: , , , |6 Comments
  • Rjmoon25

    Pizza = Love

  • Gemini’s Rock

    Love is not an easy road! Especially women, we are complicated! Gemini’s are a wild ride to say the least, i know cause i am one! Thanks for the advice-I am newly addicted, can’t get enough Ash!

  • Robert Schreib

    There’s nothing wrong with love per se, it’s when you fall for someone who uses it like a war hammer to bludgeon you into doing very wrong things, THEN the whole world is a sea of troubles!!!

  • StrategyKing

    2) seems off – if you really love someone, you will say sorry a great many times, over and over as you learn how to get along in practice with that person. And only when you have made the adjustments to get along can you know what it is to love. Otherwise it is just fantasy.

  • Tyrus Kelebon

    Love is when you feel so much for a person that you will give and do anything for that relationship. But Love is a give and take. Both partners must be in love for a true relationship to work. When a man falls in love with a woman, it is not that he is blind to her flaws, it is just that he doesn’t care about the little things. He looks at her soul and lovers her for who she is. Before a relationship both partners had different dreams and goals but after they truly become a couple they shape their future together , they both need to look at each others dreams and goals and be understanding and loving and strive to help each other achieve these together as one. And always supporting each other. There will always be mistakes and disappointments but you are always stronger together then apart. A good lover never forget that his woman needs love and praise to remind her how special she is, never take her for granted. She is your everything and you need to treat her as such. Hopefully you find the partner that makes you complete in this way.

  • aurvandil207

    I am so simple in love that most people find me complex! (but I can’t blame them.. what if they actually are right somehow….I am rarely in “normal” relationships so.. wups.. they might be right.. but I am STILL simple no matter what people may say!).

    Things I really like in your list, Ash (with some comments):

    1. You can’t love anyone until you love yourself.

    6. Fall in love with your best friend. (the basis for love IS strong friendship for Me)

    7. Love is the only thing left in this world that’s free. Give it out often and plenty. (I’m a giver so it comes naturally)

    9. You can love more than one person. (IF I had the time and opportunity and of course met the right persons to love I would fancy to have AT LEAST 5 partners.. and I am not greedy or jealous so they can have partners besides me… only trouble would be if ONE wanted me and only me… it would be very difficult to find out what my heart really wants in such a situation)

    10. People all show their love differently, especially from you. Be sure to see and appreciate those differences. (I really REALLY like this one because it actually helped a little in my RL when I read it the other day… so a BIG thank you, Ash!!!) <3